Today we’d like to introduce you to Selikem Nelson.
Hi Selikem, so excited to have you with us today. What can you tell us about your story?
Coming home one day after a ARD meeting at my daughter elementary school, I pulled my car over because I was in tears. After years of going to doctors and not finding answers, the school had reached the conclusion by that she needs special education services. I sat in a meeting for an hour with people who told me all the things she struggled with, spoke in acronyms way above my head, and read from graphs that made no sense to me. I felt that I failed her because I not only did she not have a diagnosis to explain her struggles but I did not understand what they were even saying to me. At that point I decided that I would wipe my face, go home, and teach myself everything that I needed to know. I not only went back to school, obtained special education certifications, but I also started community work because I wanted to show up for parents like myself. The ones who drove home not understanding anything and feeling like there was more that could be done. That is when I started doing community play groups for neurodivergent children but also became a community advocate showing up to 504/ARD meetings and providing additional support for families.
Alright, so let’s dig a little deeper into the story – has it been an easy path overall and if not, what were the challenges you’ve had to overcome?
It has not been a smooth road. There were times that I felt like I wasn’t enough. There was so much work to do but there was only me. I also did this work at no charge and when I tried to partner with organization who had the funding, it was hard to get them to see the vision. How do you continue to do community work and take care of your own family?
As you know, we’re big fans of you and your work. For our readers who might not be as familiar what can you tell them about what you do?
I am the Founder of SelNel’s Sensory Play & Advocacy Group Inc. This nonprofit is where it started, literal boots on the ground. Parent Partner Project is a movement that was birthed out of that. I wanted to get information out to the community on how to show up and advocate for your child within the school system. It stated with a Facebook post and many people responded wanting to help. Dr. Niccole and Nyisha were the ones who showed up, worked with me, executed the vision, and were equally as passionate as me. We are a force working together.
Before we go, is there anything else you can share with us?
🌟 Parent Partners Are Here to Support You! 🌟
Navigating the public education system — especially special education — can feel overwhelming. As Parent Partners, we’re knowledgeable about both general and special education processes and can help you:
✅ Communicate effectively with your child’s school
✅ Understand your rights and available supports
✅ Make sure your child’s needs — and yours — are being met
You don’t have to do this alone — we’re here to guide, support, and advocate alongside you. 💜
Meet the team: Dr. Niccole, Nyisha, and Selikem
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