We all think we’re being real—whether in public or in private—but the deeper challenge is questioning whether we truly know our real selves at all. In any case, even when we know ourselves we might face various pressures that push us to fit in or not cause trouble – so even the most well-intentioned person might struggle to always be 100% real in public. Sometimes the simplest questions are actually the most complex. Thankfully, we have some wonderful members of the community who offered to share their thoughts on this challenging question.
Eleana Estrada
Is the public version of me the real me? Mostly — absolutely. I’m genuine about my curiosity, my creative process, and the stories I share on the Tianquiztli Creations podcast. I show up to celebrate the messy, beautiful parts of building a jewelry line, collaborating with other artists and small businesses, and having conversations that matter. Read more>>
Alejandra Agostini
Absolutely! I actually just read this question aloud to my fiancé, and he cackled. So, that’s a resounding yes. The person you see online is the person you get in person, one hundred percent. I am an intense mix of traits—uncompromising, hysterical, deeply dedicated, and yes, unfiltered—but I am always relentlessly professional. Read more>>
Marissa Hornsby
Yes, the public version of me is the real me. What you see is what you get. I don’t have the energy or desire to play a character or keep up a perfectly polished image. I’ve made it a point, especially with The Pretty Candid Podcast to show up as I am, even when it’s messy, emotional, unsure, or in-progress. Read more>>
Joaquin Rangel
At the end of our first year, I was about ready to give up. I had spent thousands of my own money, felt burned out, and couldn’t see a light at the end to keep working toward. I was 28, watching friends buy houses, land amazing jobs, and live their dreams, while I wondered how I’d pay next month’s rent. Read more>>
