Today we’d like to introduce you to Shardae Perryman
Alright, Shardae thanks for taking the time to share your stories and insights with us today. Before we get into specifics, let’s talk about success more generally. What do you think matters most in terms of achieving success?
Knowing that you have the authority to define what success looks like for you creates a strong foundation for long-term success. Getting clear on what we value most makes it easier to identify which next steps align with the experiences we want to bring into your lives. When we exercise the courage to reach for our passions we naturally invite wellness into our lives. It’s the passion that we have for our work that makes the challenging aspects of owning a business, creating a product, or managing an organization worth working through. It’s much more painful and strenuous doing work you don’t feel connected to or inspired by. Working a means to an end job often leads to burnout, detachment, and a lackluster life. When the work you’re doing aligns with what you value, you engage in an energy exchange with your work where you are fueled by an endless supply of creativity that naturally replenishes itself. When we trust the pull to pursue our passions and commit to seeing them through, we get clearer about how we choose to show up in life, offering a chance to be truly seen. Too many people feel stuck in depression and directionless because the predefined societal boxes we’re told to choose from don’t encompass all that they’re meant to be.
What matters most to me in achieving success is self-expression which brings a sense of purpose and personal fulfillment, both essential to our being. When we do something we love, it invigorates us to our core. This fuels us with motivation and drive, empowering us. Going through life with unexpressed desires is like enduring a slow and painful death of the soul. There’s so much within us and we must to dare to let it out.
As always, we appreciate you sharing your insights with us. Before we ask you more questions can you take a minute to introduce yourself and give our readers some of your background and context?
I am an intuitive spiritual advisor, sharing wisdom on how we can create avenues of abundance through our creativity by following our dreams, goals and desires even when they fall outside of cultural and societal norms, allowing us to experience life more fully. My intention is to provide tangible practices that allow us to move forward confidently as we go after what genuinely inspires us. Everyday, more people are choosing to live in flow with life rather than against it, which increases our chances of achieving sustainable success.
As a reader I want my querents to feel empowered, equipped and supported. Through my readings, I encourage people to take advantage of the divine resources that we each have available to us by reconnecting people with their spiritual teams as well as guiding them through practices that honor our need to ebb and flow with the challenges that come with being human. When we make an effort to observe nature and its many phases, we cannot help but notice its rthym, evolution and respect for time. Finding opportunities to slow down time regularly while incorporating nature, assists us in attuning to its rhythm, and helps us align ourselves with the natural flow of life. This includes activities like sitting in nature, observing a natural body of water, admiring the night sky, enjoying a gentle breeze, taking in the sunlight, growing vegetation, engaging in mindful stretching, noticing patterns in wildlife and acknowledging your energy body. The point is to reclaim your time and energy, choosing where to focus it. With consistency overtime, these practices build trust with your inner authority to discern when to act or rest, when to plan or take action.
When I connect with my spiritual team and that of others, I am constantly reminded, and in a myriad of ways, that there are always more opportunities, avenues, resources, and options available to us than we realize. We need only to take intentional steps to reach out to them, and express our needs, wants and desires. When we leave space for God, the universe and our spiritual team, we create room for the impossible and relieve ourselves of unnecessary stress. Understanding what is in our control and what is not assists us in taking aligned action towards our goals more effectively.
The truth is, there may not be an application for what you’re meant to do. Will you allow this to halt you? Possessing the courage to create your own narrative and the audacity to figure it out out as you go propels you onto a journey of exploration, allowing you to exceed previously perceived limitations in our life.
For you, what’s the most rewarding aspect of being a creative?
The most rewarding aspect of being a creative for me is realizing that our thoughts have wings, our actions propel us forward and our drive to see our passions through becomes a self sustaining catalyst. Mastering these tools unlocks limitless creativity and boundless opportunities. The journey of discovery yourself through creativity can be liberating. Each project you complete brings a sense of pride, knowing that you’ve incorporated your authentic self into your work. This process fosters self-acceptance, as you come to appreciate your unique voice and vision. Trusting the process becomes second nature, allowing you to follow through on your ideas with confidence. As you continue to create, you authentically build your self-esteem, recognizing the value and impact of your work. It’s a cycle of constant evolution, where each creation becomes a stepping stone towards your true self.
When you’re aligned with your passion, opportunities seem to flow to you effortlessly. Your creativity attracts collaborations, partnerships, and new ventures that enrich your journey. This abundance isn’t just material; it’s the wealth of experiences, connections, and freedom in decision making that come from doing what you love.
Happiness and emotional fulfillment becomes a natural byproduct. The joy of creating and witnessing your vision come to life brings a deep sense of fulfillment. This sense of vitality permeates all aspects of your life, making each day more vibrant and meaningful.
How about pivoting – can you share the story of a time you’ve had to pivot?
Sometimes our greatest challenges manifest from the idea that everything we do depends on us. Through the numerous readings I’ve done for others, I’ve realized that sometimes we need to find positive ways to disconnect from our current reality to find our rhythm. There was a time when I was so focused on meeting a financial goal while balancing both my online store and side hustle.
The online store was what I loved to do but the side hustle was what I felt I needed to do to survive.
Life has a way of catching up with you. When you’re not in flow with life and actively disregarding your energy-body, burnout is almost inevitable. Not without guilt and fear of the consequences, I reluctantly took an entire week off. I hoped I wouldn’t regret the much-needed rest I knew, deep down, my body deserved. After a week of doing absolutely nothing, I was charged with the inspiration and drive to renovate my entire online store. I was refueled and impassioned by what felt like limitless creativity. I was in a flow state. To my surprise, acknowledging my energy body, honoring my need for rest, and leaving space for God, the universe, and my spiritual team had immediate returns. When I had to pivot and shift my energy, my perspective changed. Once I redirected the energy that I was putting into the side hustle I thought I needed, into the passion project I truly wanted, the impossible happened. Being in a flow state boosted my productivity significantly. I never returned to my side hustle after renovating my online store because I no longer needed to. Sometimes what seems counterintuitive makes a significant difference in the possibilities surrounding our circumstances. Our willingness to pivot and knowing that we can is crucial in our journey to success. Our ability to clarify our values allows them to guide our next steps. Knowing what’s in our control and what isn’t leaves space for God, the universe and our spiritual teams.
Once you’ve found something that truly lights you up, devote your time, energy, and effort into nurturing it, and watch it grow.
To dive deeper into these insights, visit my website and subscribe to my YouTube channel, Sun_Flowers_Dae where I have channeled over 40 divinely inspired readings.
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