We asked some of the wisest people we know what they would tell their younger selves. Check out their responses below.
Blaize Lynch
People are often unreasonable, illogical and self centered; Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway. If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies; Succeed anyway. If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; Be honest and frank anyway. Read more>>
Dr. Ben Rotman
I’d tell him, you are going to be okay. You do not have to have it all figured out right now. Trust the big turns and unexpected pauses, illnesses, and all the other weird stuff. They are going to shape you in ways that make sense later. And along the way, do not forget to actually enjoy the ride. Read more>>
Meghan Elizabeth
I’d tell her, “You’re doing better than you think.” There were so many times I felt behind or unsure if I’d ever feel stable whether it was emotionally, financially, or just in life. But every version of me kept going, even when things felt heavy. I’d remind her that all the things she’s worrying about will eventually work out in ways she couldn’t even imagine. Read more>>
Jessica Loyola
If I could go back and tell my younger self one kind thing, it would be this: Love yourself fully—exactly as you are. Don’t be so hard on yourself. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You don’t have to be perfect! I’ve always been my own toughest critic. Read more>>
